Frank, I appreciate your insights...good stuff...I love the way you suggest to look at it like a toy...makes me a little naucous thinking of it like a vibrator w/o battery but I get the message.
But I have stopped thinking who is better than who, since I'm the better man - I don't have affairs with married women.
I get his, but I'm asking myself the same question about W...Is she good enough for me? I didn't/wouldn't have an A on her so maybe I should force her into the OM arms by giving an ultimatum...they obviously deserve each other...and I deserve to be happy...somekind of sick revenge knowing that I could force her into a R with OM when she has said that he's not long term...make her eat her own words.
