Quote: If she says that she wants to see where this goes with him...he must be more of a factor than she says...I really agree with her to some respect...I don't think he has long term potential, security, stable, etc.
I like your later thoughts better Vince. Him being more of a factor is giving him more power in this than he deserves. Don't...and yes you can set her free and see where it all goes...but you haven't really been in this all that long to just give up and not fight for it either? But again, only you can decide what you want to do.
Talk to your Therapist separately...explore this and really get a good feeling for what the Therapist is thinking. Is this a conventional Therapist or a solution based therapist? You indicated hesitation as for W listening to him...go with your gut...but before you do anything rash that you may regret...talk with the therapist, know if you believe in what he is saying and then sleep on it...you don't have to do this tomorrow. Slow down...I know sometimes we live in a FedEx world and want everything solved right now...but there is no time table in all this...
