Quote: Does anyolne here feel like I'm over reacting to her having OM stay the night after a great Marriage session? I'm not even that angry for her staying with him over the weekend...just the night of our session...isn't that a little weird?
You are overreacting honey only because you are still attached...and while I can say detach, it's much easier said than done. Sure you can't take the other gentleman's advice and dump her but what do you feel in your heart. I'm thinking since you went to the trouble of finding a MC and finding DB that is not what you truly want.
When you are able to detach you won't look at each and everything she does, you won't analyze it to death as others do...you will not personalize. In the beginnings here you will see that we all personalize, look for any and every baby step forward and then we focus too much on the steps backwards. If you let the rope drop and see what happens you will find yourself in a healthier emotional place.
She is in MC with you, is she not...that is more than many have here...actions speak louder than words. Perhaps she didn't tell you the truth to protect you from these very feelings that you are feeling right now. She knows how you would feel.
BTW..the book Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus...the authors last name is Grey...I am rereading it again right now...I truly think it would help you as well as most people on this board understand where the male/female perspective of things come into play.
