Oh My...Oh My... Just got home from the marriage session and it was 2 hours of wonderful discussion. It was the first session and you all would be so proud of me, I didn't bring up OM once...she did once but i said "that we can talk about the by product of our lack of communication later...right now I want to focus on us and where we took a wrong turn in our marriage" WOW!!! where did that come from??? One answer...NYS, Stong and sassy, Hopefloats and all that gave me there wisdom of DBering...Thank you.
Now I know that I have a long way to go and that this is just another stop in this roller coaster of life but gosh, I really got a glimmer of hope tonight.
Discovery from session: 1)she does not see OM as long term prospect at all...she rolled her eyes at the thought...good sign 2) she said that she did not want our communication to be relegated to just once a week at our sessions...(talk more on phone maybe even a date down the road) 3) she said that she could tell a difference in me...she didn't know what it was...she thought maybe like your humbled...I said no I like to look at as enlightened...I could tell the 180 freaked her out...she didn't know how to handle it. 4) W said that she never imagined this session would go so good...Thanks DB!!!!
i swear I could eat a horse right now and I'm so tired...it's amazing how your body will replenish itself when needed with a little good news.
