You're right NYS...I read all about this roller coaster ride and I even tell myself that "I'm on it and chill out"...I believe that knoledge is power so if I know that I'm on this roller coaster, why can't I be cool and chill out...
Update. W called today and I can't lie, I was going to answer it...didn't want to wonder another 4-5 days what she wanted. So I go to pick it up and no kidding I was so nervous that I accidently sent into VM...can you believe.
she left a message this time just saying how she wanted to make sure that I knew that the JT session on Mon changed time and she ends the message..."Hope all is well"...yea...it's going real well you $&^%&...not nice, i know.
But there is a side of me that thinks that this is a good sign...a sign that I'm not totally out of sight out of mind and she must be thinking of me a little to call...she is still staying at OM house again tonight...
Sassy, NYS, Hopefloats...anyone? Advise please: is it normal for WA to spend so much time with OM yet still wanting to stay in touch (not a lot) with spouse? I thnk that she has stayed in her brand new apt maybe 3-4 nights in the past 3 weeks all the rest at OM.
Does it help sizzle the A out quicker or does it allow them to grow deeper in love?
