it's been driving me crazy going dark...the whole time knowing she has been at OM house for past three nights... why did she call? better yet why did she not leave a message? If she wanted to pass along info and not talk to me she could always text me (like in the past)... Could my prayers be answered that she might miss me a little?... absolutely killing me to not call her to find out... I guess we are on for therapy...OR...is she going to drop the bomb on me at the session
I understand the concept of DB and am all for it but where is the threshold of pain where we say enough is enough
It's not DBing that's giving you that pain. It's your not DBing that is. That is to say, the technique of going dark involves focussing on yourself, and DB involves thought control. Your pain is stemming from your lack of doing that.
