I am assuming that our posts crossed here Vince...
Okay, so you are expecting the worst and hoping for the best. That is excellent. However, let's get back to Vince. You're spending valuable time spinning your mind around onto why she is calling, not calling, not leaving messages...it's all speculation. But what could you be doing? What should you be doing? What have you been doing? That's what DB is all about...GAL, working on your PMA...
You think she's sneaky about going to a game...sheesh, honey she's sneaky because she's with another man. Whatever she does is going to be sneaky, again Vince, what are YOU doing?
Of course I am telling you not to call her back...we all know that curiousity killed the cat, but satisfaction brought it back...9 times if I am not mistaken...if it will put your mind at ease in this cheeseless tunnel, then by all means, call her and find out what she wanted...and then she's going to know that you're checking up on your phone calls to see the missed call...or that you sat there looking at the phone that rang and didn't pick up...sorry honey...that is not very attractive. What would be more attractive is that you are out getting a life, that's why you didn't pick up the phone so that when she does call and says What have you been up to...you have something other than Oh waiting for your call to say.
Good on the therapy...but again, let the reason for the session go...already anticipating the reason why...let it go...I know Vince how hard this is...trust me doll I really do and I don't mean to smack you with my ruler...but take the focus off of her...and put it back on YOU!!!
