WAW is having affair

[FinallyUnderstands]

I'm trying not to get angry...I'm trying to think of it's just her trying to get a rise...but why...I have done nothing to her...Is she that riddled with guilt that she has to do this to me? Is that normal for the WAW behaivor?

It seems to me that the guilt goes along with the A. My W hasn't even admitted to the A yet. She has so much guilt right now that she doesn't have the guts to stand up and tell me that she's seeing someone. She just keeps hinting at the little things thinking I'll file and she can come out of this smelling like a rose. W hasn't mentioned D in two or three weeks. I think she is living in themoment and not really thinking about what she's doing. I really want to let her know how I feel, but I know that getting her to sit down a talk about it will not having easily. I thought that things were working out slowly, but it seems now that my confidence and positive thinking may have told her that I have moved on and that I don't care enough to make it work. I really need some help on this. Found that W has put a couple of pics up of OM. This person has a violent past with her they were engaged once and she broke it of because he used to beat her.