Any further humiliation that you feel is coming from you, be aware of that. Everything that she's done says a lot more about her than it ever could say of you. She's the one that should feel humiliated, not you. She won't because she's distracted right now
That is the way I feel...but I don't want to give her the power anymore to make me humiliated...I know you are saying it's my choice, but I, like you, am thinking there is too much that she would have to do to reconcile...she messed up but more over after she know's I know she is still doing it and I have all the respect for the board here but I don't think that I want to work on it and take months out of my life on her to continue the A...I'm no spring chicken, 37...but I have no kids relativly successful, and not a bad looking guy and feel like there is someone that might be interested in me that does not have commitment issues. The way I feel is if she wants him that bad, have him and the life that goes along with it...not the way I would want to live, but maybe they are in love.
