PW, I'm very sorry to hear of your situation and your thoughts are very welcome...I was wondering if I could ask you a couple of questions from a w perspective...You mention that there are some financial and home concerns about you leaving...Isn't that normal for woman to want the security of knowing that they are secure and maybe you might work a little harder or stay a little longer for the hope that it can work...I think that is what I'm holding on to...My W is 28 and attractive, however, she has told me many times she could not even think of the dating scene (who can...and I believe her)...so then my competition is OM, who is the complete oppisite of me which I think that she questions whether there is a future there or not for security...So question being, do you feel that a lack of security (by the way we just moved and built our dream home)will keep a w from considering a D?
