My W stopped wearing both of her's just before we got separated. In one of our talks prior to me moving out to giver her her space, she said that she's thought of being with other people. I guess with her taking her rings off, it makes it easier for her to be with OM or seem available. I don't know what she'll say if she was asked if she was M...
During our separation we met up once to go shopping, I took it off and placed it next to our picture. She noticed at one of the stores we were in and asked if I was playing a game with her. I said no and that I took it off because I wanted some part of my heart to be near her. That's the only time I ever took it off after we got married.
My W has not worn her wedding ring since she walked away almost 6 months ago. It bothered me at first but I just accepted it as her way of removing all reminders of me. I have never taken mine off. I have looked to it to give me the strength and reason to have carried on through all that has happened which has been quite a bit. I think it may have contributed to how far we have come as well. For her to see me wearing mine everytime we got together may just have touched her just a little. Now after this past weekend we are on the verge of reconciliation yet she still hasn't put hers back on. After what we just talked about yesterday, I will be overjoyed to see her put it back on again. I may ask her if I can have the honor of placing it back on her finger. I may suggest that we both remarry in our own little personal ceremony. But, if she has a last minute change of heart, I will continue to wear mine until we are no longer married.
ABM
I'm not sure I'm living better, but I am living different.
My Sitch
