Book on *during* the affair?

[PandaWanda]

PandaWanda, thanks very much for your suggestion on the Huizenga book. This sounds like it directly addresses my question. I will check it out. Have you tried any of the services on that web page, and if so were they helpful?

Dear HopefulAndDetermined (love your nickname!)
I prepaid for one month of coaching, but I must say I am disappointed - after this month expires, I still have two unused sessions, I plan to hire one of the coaches here.

Good luck - we are in the same boat. I know it is difficult to survive this kind of affair, but just as you I believe this can be done.

cheers,
PandaWanda