Quote: But now she is comparing that 'feeling in love' with our relationship and sees our relationship as no comparison. She want's those feelings.
frank, this is where I am at with my WAH. He believes he's in love with o.w. and has told me he loves me but is having a hard time being in love with me. Those feelings are missing from our R. because of all that has happened, the cheating he did, the guilt, etc. I don't know if H. will ever be able to overcome all of that. But I can't do anything about it; he's going to either have to come to terms with it, or else he will ask me for a D. which I don't want. I think you are doing a very good job. Hang in there and stay strong. Merry Christmas.
Most of us really marry only once. First love endures, even unto our dying day. And we never really divorce.
