frank,

Has she been on the computer/cell phone as much? Seems to me she is doing these things on purpose...for some reason.

Not to get all personal on you, but the fact is that her OM is not nearby, so maybe she's thinking about you "in that way" if you know what I mean.

Please keep us updated on what is going on.

Most of us really marry only once. First love endures, even unto our dying day. And we never really divorce.