I think that not fixing and trying to help your daughters maintain some respect for your W is the ONLY thing you can do and it's the right thing. Yes, I too want my wife to suffer. I don't think we need to add anything to the mix for our WAW's to suffer. I feel they truly are suffering far more than we know, or even THEY know. What you are doing IS DBing and great DBing at that. You continue to do a great job at both being there for your children, DBing, and handling the situation as a whole. I only wish my 7 year old son could see how his mother's actions are mirroring your wife's and that he could see a bigger party of the story like your daughters do. However, his age and innocence seem to be helping him right now and I won't take that away. Rise above the maelstrom and continue to be the better person and good things will happen. Keep up the good work!
