Quote: I remember reading that there is no shortage of single divorced moms in the 35-45 age range but a huge shortage of single men in that age range. That's why so many divorced women with kids don't get married again.
Geez, thanks for the mood boost there, Frank!
I think you handled last night very well. Your D15 is certainly old enough to know what is going on; you don't want the D and why should you lie about it? I've told my D9 the same thing. If your W doesn't like it, it's probably due to guilt, so that too bad for her.
You sound angry but strong, which isn't a bad place to be. Your girls obviously love you and depend on you. Right now, you are their role model, not their mother, and they need to be able to count on you. Kudos to you for putting *them* first; if your W won't then you will have to.
I hope that you are having a good day.
Nicola
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