Quote: How insulting to corrupt the family tree with her affair like that. At first I was offended reading that, but now I am so so sad for her that she thinks this is OK to do. Where is her sense of respect for the family's integrity and sacred spaces? Who is this woman?.
I agree with hope; this is really intolerable. And I honestly had to laugh at the whales in a previous life thing--I'm telling you, Frank, it sounds like she's going off the deep end; sorry if that sounds insulting, but she's acting very strangely. Could *she* be depressed?
Quote: I just don't take infidelity very well, even though we are GETTING A DIVORCE so it shouldn't matter, right?
Of course it still hurts. I just about died when I found out H was "dating" after he moved out. He split up w/ OW, then apparently started "casually dating" two other women! We're not even living together and it disgusts and hurts me.
Quote: By me changing faster the process moves faster - either she comes towards me faster or I move away from her faster and go on with life without her.
Either way, *your* life will be better. You will be a better person and you will find a partner who can appreciate you and be there for you--hopefully your W, but if not then someone else. You are becoming so much stronger every day; you can't help but "win" no matter what the outcome of this.
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