Quote: There is no way I could tolerate that gold ornament on the tree. The FAMILY tree. She should hang it in her room instead
Well I only know about it because I read her e-mail. It's a piece of metal. And it shows me more of her thought process - and how twisted it is right now.
Quote: The mistletoe taped to the computer is weird, frank. Your wife is doing some strange things. I read about the mermaid towel, too, and how she and OM believe they were whales in a former life.
Yes, I have to stop myself from having her sent to the insane asylum, Did you read the article on the board about 'emotional affairs'? One of the things it says is that they do all these 'teenager behaviors' that you would never do as a real adult in real love. I remember stuffing one of my shirts under my pillow once because it had a girlfriends perfume on it and I wanted to smell it. Did you do anything like that when you were 17? It's all weird stuff but she WANTS to be in love so bad she is living in the clouds. If I challenge her beliefs she will pull away from ME and towards HIM.
Quote: What does your counselor say about this to your wife?
Nothing yet, we just finally got her to GO to counseling with me under the pretense of healing the past so we can be friends.
Quote: It does seem that this won't last due to the geographical separation, and that is in your favor. I will keep praying for you and your family, and that OM stays selfish. Maybe that trip next year will fall apart before it even happens.
