Also I believe you have a lot of anger towards your W for not helping you with your depression/drinking the fact remains that nothing changed until you decided to do something about it I think you need to forgive yourself for your past behaviours - forgive your W for doing as much as you thought she should and look to YOUR future and GALing this is where I think things will begin to turn around for you bj
I agree, and it isn't so much that I am angry with her for not 'doing enough' but I am angry with her for THINKING she 'did everything' and blames me.
Regardless, it's in the past. Right now I am looking to figure out what future I may have with her, given the kind of person I know she really is now.
