Well, you could take up a new hobby, join a gym, things like that, if you are just looking for new friends. Church groups are good, too. Maybe join a book club if you like to read.
I am sorry to hear of your W's actions. I understand very well. At least there is distance between them, and that may help deteriorate their R.
Just hang in there and try some new things like that to meet new people. I hope it helps get you through these tough days.
Most of us really marry only once. First love endures, even unto our dying day. And we never really divorce.
