Frank...another home boy...whereabouts in LA? I grew up in Hollywood!!
Sorry you had to find us here but you are with a fantastic group of people.
First she is still in the house...so you can continue to DB your little heart out. Have you read DR and DB...both excellent reads. Spend a great deal of time in the Newcomers thread where you came from...at the top you will find a wealth of information from the coaches as well as members who have been there done that all before us...and many success stories.
3k miles that is a long ways away...what plans has she mentioned about actually going to be with him or vice versa. I've lived in Hawaii, it's a beautiful state set for great romance, but the reality of life there is very expensive. It could very well end up that she was caught up in the moment of it all and it will fizzle out...you did indicate that his GF is still living with him...so you never know if he is feeding your W full of stuff either...the GF has no reason to stick it out, she can just pack up and leave unless of course she has no idea what is going on.
I would first read all you can, continue to post...as you said you already have her thinking, wow he wants to be my friend, he's not angry about this...you already look great to her about this sitch...so keep up with the friendship. Monitor the results by starting a journal. Since you are living there she can see every single 180 that you do...so I would concentrate on those also.
