Hey, I'm a yo-yo too! bet lots of us our, on our crazy rollercoasters!
It's hard not to read too much into any of our responces from WAH's, and I don't want to feel regret? you did?
I guess I thought it would be this earth shattering moment afterwards for him, with him gushing out his whole soul and begging for forgiviness, wanting to make amends, wanting to start over, wanting to be with me forever-!----hey everyone here must be thinking, how much dreaming am I doing? Not that I really thought that, maybe deep down hoped as we all must keep our hope, a day at a time
Keeping my expectations to zero is very hard. I've gotta keep on with my goals which have helped me so for. Keep detaching, and let H find his own way out of his dark depressing MLC, and hopefully see me at the end of his tunnel. Still interested in how anyone else has handled this, and if they have the same ambivalence about sex with WAP who is still involved with OW/OM.
