NOPkins, I thought you might have some good advice for this fellow, FarAway. He has several short threads over in Newcomers, so it's hard to follow his sitch. This is his first post, which I think has the relevant info for you (affair): FarAway's first post
-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect. -An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.