Glad to hear from you. I did read some of your posts. Where do you live?
So you run a sports store that specializes in Dart tournaments? That's cool! Don't know if I put it down, but I'm a martial artist (taekwondo) and am testing for my red belt tomorrow, have a photo shoot in the evening and will be out with my ex tonight. Plus I'm suppose to go on a hike with one of my male friends the next day (Sunday). Hope I can do it all!
Are you dating or thinking about it? I have a few people whom I'm seeing--though nothing serious at this point because there's a years wait from time of separation to file for divorce in NC.
I'm an older woman who believes in fitness and keeping fit mentally. As far as peace goes, it comes and goes.I have to switch to the "peace" mode when I begin feeling depressed.
My WAS doesn't know what he wants either. And I believe that he also drinks a little too much. Right now he wants to "be in love" and may have found a needy woman who is responding to him. So far he's still seeing me. Sometimes I don't know why since I do have breakdowns occasionally and go into all the stuff I shouldn't. He claims he's not jealous of the men I'm seeing, but he may be lying--perhaps this is why he's seeing me--what are your thoughts on this idea?
I don't know how you could stand it when your H would show up with the OW at the Dart tourney. How did you do it? Did you fake indifference? It seems the WAH's are so unfeeling to actually bring an OW to where we would be or to talk about them to us. Though I talk about the men to mine, I'm secretly hoping this will sink in and he'll feel jealous when I'm not around. There's some counselors(e-books etc) that say this is the best way to get them back-to create competition. Your thoughts? At this point do you have and long term goals or plans? l
