Hi NYsurvivor,

Thanks for responding. You said you're surprised that he's still willing to see me even though I bring up M, R and OW.

Well, there are times when I do have more control than others. He's only had this OW for about 6 weeks. When I found out that he's off of the dating site and sees her every Sunday and during the week, I figured it was pretty serious. So it's been lately that I've had breakdowns. I'm also seeing someone casually, and he says he's not jealous, but have a suspision that he may be hiding a little of this and this could be why he's still seeing me. Do you think this is a possiblilty?

Thanks for advising me to be pleasant, fun and cheery. I know I should be this way, but I needed to hear it from a real person.

Where is your sitch, do you still see your S? Love to hear about it.

Rere