Thanks for responding. Our sitch is different in that HE is the one who left-but I guess if you're separated, this doesn't really matter.
Was/is there an OW in your H's life? Let me know where some of your threads are and I'll read them.
I knew my H was looking. He got on a dating site 3 months before he left, corresponded with a woman for awhile, met her and left me the next day. She decided she didn't want him, but he began looking for someone to replace her.
We had a bad marriage, took one another for granted and argued constantly. Since we've been dating our R and M and sex life has improved, but knew he was still looking. Well he's off the dating site now and has met someone. I also have a friend whom I've just begun to date.
My H and I have been separated almost seven months.There's a year's separation before divorcing in our state. He doesn't seem to be very jealous, says he just wants me to be happy, but doesn't want to give up his "friend" and come home. It's all getting to me now because of the holidays. I need to be nice and not talk R,M and OW, but find this hard sometimes.
Am interested in any advise you can give.
I'm so afraid that if I go dark and quit seeing him that he will only forget me more and turn to OW, but looks like he's doing that anyway. Tell me what you think. Rere
