Even though my WAS has OW, he still agrees to date me. I don't know how to act. I do all the wrong things-I know I don't Db right. It seems so hard not to talk of the M and R. I even bring up the OW a lot.
Anyone with this kind of sitch? How do you handle it. Are there any books that anyone knows of that advises how to handle the R when there is OW/OM involved?
I'm seeing him Friday-he will take me anyplace I want to go. I think a lot of this is out of guilt-but don't care at this point.
For those of you who think I'm lucky to have him still agree to see me: It's probably harder, because it's too much of a limbo and the pain never gets better. But when I try to go dark (the longest was 3 days), I feel more pain from hopelessness.
