GEL I would definitely ask him about the crying. If we are all trying to have EC with our S, doesn't it make sense that we should address their feelings instead of avoid them. They are an issue. I'm not picking on you, just saying in general that many times we overlook issues with our S in order to avoid a fight, not rock the boat, whatever. I think that adds to the stress and disconnect that make having a fulfilling intimate SL possible.
