His being in the room where he could possibly view the porn does really upset me, but what upsets me more is that when my H gets on the computer he tunes the rest of the world out....he didn't have a clue what our S was up to, in to....or needing. That's why he didn't even hear me come in the door....when our S was yelling "mommy!, mommy!, mommy!" when he saw me from the window.
