It's not the "porn" itself I'm upset over it's, lying about it time and time again, and viewing it when he ignores me sexually, and yes....viewing it when our S is in the room. I've told him repeatedly I wouldn't have a problem with it as long as I knew about it and it wasn't his only outlet......but Patsi, that's the case. I do know he wasn't watching it to "get himself in the mood for me"...when I asked he said no, I wasn't doing that.
I've cut him more than enough slack and that's been enabling him to not really do any work, I'm done doing that.
