"His response was "I know I've got to stop thinking about it and start doing it."....to which I responded "DAMN RIGHT!""
YES!! This is the crux of the matter. No matter how many R books you read, how many MC sessions you go to, how many posts you make and get responses for, at some point you have to start implementing things or it is just smoke.
"BTW...this type of pissed for me is kind of like Haleys Comet, it comes around very rarely....but it's definitely a force of nature!"
Uh oh! An astronomy analogy, you'd better watch out! Hmmm, where can we take this? Halley's comet only comes out once every 76 years, which is very rare. A comet is actually a very large display of mostly nothing, it is barely above the density of outer space. If the Earth passed through the tail of a comet, it wouldn't affect us at all. I doubt very much if you would say that your anger didn't affect your H. The comet itself is a very tiny nugget of icy-rock hidden deep within the cloud. I wouldn't say your anger was small or hidden.
On the other hand, comets are fantastic displays that captivate our attention with their beauty whenever they grace the skies. But if a comet were to ever hit the Earth, watch out! The devestation would be tremendous!
I'd say you've just given notice that your comet is coming for his Earth. He'd better take steps to correct the situation and turn it back into a beautiful display, or else BOOM!
"Recollect me darlin, raise me to your lips, two undernourished egos, four rotating hips"