Actually I think it was the mere fact that he was viewing this with Ian running around that set me off like a screaming banshee (minus the screaming part)....it was inappropriate and inexcusable.
He and I are going to be having A LOT more discussion about this....I wish I could have actually talked to him about it more last night but I was just way too angry....I couldn't look at him and had a hard time remaining in the same room with him for several hours.