I would keep looking into this, if I were you. Keep prodding and see what you find.
His history has never made sense to me. I mean, a guy who has one shrewish ex wife, sure, but 3 or 4 experiences that are all traumatizing and the women's fault? Hmmmmmm.
I wonder if he has gotten into the habit of shutting women out sexually at some point in the R and turning to porn to get his needs met.
He wouldn't be the first guy and you are strong enough to work through it, either way.
Viewing it in front of your little boy is fcukin inexcusable.
Let me know how the MC goes tomorrow. Should be interesting!!
P.S. Thanks for the pics of Ian; they were adorable as usual.