Greeneyedlass I do not agree with what your husband was doing in any type of manner. The only thing that I would recommend is for you to ask him what does he get from that and see if you can replace his answer with you doing whatever it is if in reason of course. Men use video to fantasize what is missing just as woman have done the same but going to OM. Better a video vs. OW
"A man of knowledge uses words with restraint, and a man of understanding is even-tempered. Even a fool is thought wise if he keeps silent, and discerning if he holds his tongue." Proverbs 17:27-28
