Good questions, but no he said (because I did ask a few nights) that he was too tired to ML he really just wanted to snuggle with me. I can understand why you asked that, but his behavior started while it was that time-o-da-month for me. Neither of us are very into ML during that time.
Tonight however is a different story...I told him last night that my internal remodeling would be completed today....he said OKAY!
Actually though I think this brief period of him acting more sexual towards me has been really good. In the past he'd voiced that everything had to lead to sex (he was projecting onto me, because I never have believed that but his X said it to him alot). So now he can see that he can be sexually playful like he has been with me and I don't expect it means we have to jump into bed.
It also has the added benefit for me of...if he's sexually playful and wants more...then he will have to be a bit more aggressive to take it there if I don't. He's getting more aggressive too.
