You crack me up girl! When I was writing that post I thought "they're going to think I'm making this stuff up!" LOL. I'm not though, and I'm in as much disbelief as I think some people will be who might read about it.
Right now I find myself not trusting what he's doing because it is such a DRASTIC turnaround for him. I'm enjoying it, but I can feel a part of myself internally holding him at arms length waiting for that other shoe to drop too. I'm working very hard at keeping that internal because I do see (and feel hehehe) the efforts from him....this time it honestly feels like a genuine change, not an effort. You of all people I know will relate to that.