Karen, thanks...I have more to add to my previous post though. Yesterday afternoon/evening was a most interesting and surprising one for me.
Definitely not wanting to get my hopes up too high, just enjoying what happened When I arrived home from work yesterday my H was in such an affectionate, loving mood....this is a side of him I have only glimpsed before....the side I knew was there but he wouldn't let out. Well yesterday, he let it come out to play for a few hours!
He was making comments about how hot I looked in the new PJ's I bought over the weekend (he wasn't with me when I bought them, and no...it wasn't lingerie)...I had just slipped them on to be comfortable playing with our son. He was talkative, complimentary, physically/sexually affectionate....I'm telling you guys....it was kind of wierd at first LOL. He's never let this much out at once and it was a bit surprising to me, I guess you could almost say I was in disbelief. He even asked me at one point if I was going to cut my hair (since he knows it's at a length that I either let it grow or cut it, but he never asks me these things)...so I informed him I'm letting it grow really long again...when I asked why? Did he have a suggestion for a style or something like that?...he said "nope, just wondering." Ok...I'll buy that, but I have reason to believe he liked that answer because later he grabbed me, gave me a really passionate (moans and everything) french kiss and really dug his hands into my hair (he's NEVER done that)...which is something I just love.
We had fun snuggling on the couch, we had some really good conversation all evening and the feeling was really connected.....it was wonderful and strange all at the same time. Wonderful of course because this is the type of behavior I've been craving from my H, strange because for so long he's done things slowly....little bits at a time and then whammo! I have no doubt that we probably could have ML last night, but to be honest....I was wiped!!! Been fighting off a sinus infection and was asleep in no-time when he took a few moments to play one of his computer games....so instead I just enjoyed the evening.
So...GELs assignment for today? Validate what he did!!! Let him know how much it meant and how it made me feel, let him know that type of behavior IS what I've been needing.
When I arrived home from work yesterday my H was in such an affectionate, loving mood....this is a side of him I have only glimpsed before....the side I knew was there but he wouldn't let out. Well yesterday, he let it come out to play for a few hours!
