Why do you think he's not afraid of your anger, or of letting you down, as it concerns sex?
I don't understand this, do you

Well in his experience women are perfectly justified in witholding anything/anytime they want. And in culture women are perfectly 'right' in witholding sex whenever they want.

Why shouldnt it be ok for him to do so also. Its his body. And activities that lead to fuzzy feelings have to be terrifying after 4 ? WAW's.
Gel I have been watching your sitch for the past few weeks since you left for work and returned to SSDD, and the subsequent and understandable downturn.

First welcome back cheery GEL. I had a long post to you that got erased when my pc rebooted last weekend(along with some other work ), about your H feeling WAW memories when you leave for work.

Anychance it could send him into withdrawal phase, wondering if you are still 'interested' and wanting you to prove it when you return?

I get the sense that he is very tentatively feeling you out.... emotionally speaking, unfortunately LOL... and testing that you are going to stick around. Your doing well,

Has he ever been to MC before? Was he ever 'forced' to go before? You could point out -if you havent already- that you are doing MC because you want this M to work.