Ok...for those of you who are interested....I have had success with getting my H to O with oral
I've mentioned that I'm having a problem initiating lately...but yesterday I had the urge (at about noon)...I had just put our son down for a nap .... was walking by my H the thought came into my head and instead of stopping to think about it (which would give me a chance to decide not to and my arms to go to lead) I just grabbed him by the hand....drug him into the bedroom....pushed him onto the bed and did my thing.
I also used a few of the suggestions that were given to me on here as well as far as some things to try. It worked....and surprise, surprise....about 20 minutes after I'd finished and I was back to doing my things around the house he walked up and gave me a very nice french kiss.
That is the 1st time I've had the opportunity to truly show him that we can do things that don't have to lead to intercourse that are satisfying....and that I can do things for him without expectations of him doing something for me too.
I think part of the success this time is due in part to the fact that....we didn't wait until 10pm at night. It was the middle of the day, he wasn't tired.
I'm giving myself a good ole pat on the back for that!
