Place a calendar somewhere in plain sight where your husband will see it every day. The calendar should have at least three months always visible.
Every time you make love, put an X over the appropriate day. When he eventually figures out what the X's are (or asks), he may very well start to compete with himself to increase the number of Xs. After all, having an entire month with only one X will be very disconcerting for him. Most guys are very visually oriented.
With at least three months visible, he can see progress, or be reminded when there is none.
All the best, -NOPkins-
I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.
-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect. -An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.
