GEL, I think the numero uno thing I would address in the next session is H's passive aggressiveness.
If he is thinking in his mind, I can't ML 3x a week cause then she will expect it, then why the hell did he verbally agree to it in the MC's office? Why say one thing, just to appease the counselor, all the while having NO intention on follow through?
For me, *that* would be the maddening aspect of the whole thing--not necessarily his failure to cough up the lovemaking sessions. To both your face and hers, he agreed to something which he had no intention of completing.
That is a problem.
Oh and fwiw, I don't see you as gloomy at all! Isn't it funny how people perceive things so differently.
