"MY husband seems like the kind of man that just has a hard time with things being just for him sexually."
I just wanted to chime in and say that it is the same for me, and I know a lot of men feel the same way. I believe it is a myth that most men are the "screw and roll-over" type. Nearly every guy who I have talked to said having the women O is a POWERFUL turn-on.
"It's like he thinks he has to satisfy me each time."
I have that same problem. Fortunately it wasn't a major issue, because the W did O most of the time. But when she didn't I would internalize it. I'm sure it is part of the whole cruddy sex dynamic that she and I now have.
GEL, it will probably sound hypocritical coming from me, but I wish there was some way you could perk yourself up. I'm not saying you have depression or anything, but you do come across gloomy a lot. Not that you don't have just cause. Wishing you the best this weekend.
"Recollect me darlin, raise me to your lips, two undernourished egos, four rotating hips"
