That is great you speak for yourself. It drives me crazy, lol, when my FIL speaks for my MIL all the time. If you ask her something he will answer all the time. Sometimes it drives me crazy she isn't more assertive. I guess she is just used to it. My husband learned long ago I do have a mind and will speak it.hehehe
Glad to here you lay it all out there in MC. I hope I will be able to do that also. There is still part of me that feels my husband has got to be embarrassed he is this way sexually. Maybe I am wrong. So to bring up this issue about him well I am hoping I won't be embarrassed for him and be able to honest in there.
Good way to look at it Gel about his past and not let it hurt you as much anymore. You seem like the kind of person who can find a positive in any negative situation. I envy that about you.