This is a really interesting assignment to do IT 3x a week.
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#1 See if his SD increases #2 See if increasing the frequency will kind of push him past some of the barriers he's resisting. #3 Try to help restore some of the EC that took a serious nose-dive for me (but I believe this is a minor reason).
When I first came on this board for a little while about 6 months ago there were some people here reminiscing about their past sex-life and how many orgasms they had managed in one session. I think the record was about 30! But who's counting - LOL. Anyway this kind of inspired me a little so I jumped my H's LD bones that night and managed to knock up 6. It certainly revved my engines so I did the same the next night and the next. In fact we kept things going at about 4 X a week for about two weeks!
And I would definitely say that all three points above were right on - yes even the EC which you have doubts about.
So what went wrong I'm not really sure. I think I might have got my period or something and then when I tried again to get that frequency back H just seemed really switched off and I couldn't get past that barrier.
I raised it with him a few weeks ago, because sometimes when he is mad with me and we have a row he will throw these accusations that I never do anything for him (his LL is AOS) and he will include sex in that. I have told him before not to make it a "wifely duty" as that would just kill off my desires for sure. Anyway I said to him "what about a few months ago when I was pouncing on you practically every night and we were going great and then suddenly you didn't want it anymore?" He didn't make an answer, just looked kind of like I had picked up on something he didn't want to talk about.
But that is us GEL, and our problems. I would say that what your MC has suggested is a really good idea especially if it includes him initiating some of the time at least. I guess when H and I were ML with that frequency it wasn't with the help of MC so we never talked about how each other felt about what was going on and we never talked about why it stopped
take care
Fran
if we can be sufficient to ourselves, we need fear no entangling webs Erica Jong
so I jumped my H's LD bones that night and managed to knock up 6. It certainly revved my engines so I did the same the next night and the next. In fact we kept things going at about 4 X a week for about two weeks!
I'm not really sure. I think I might have got my period or something and then when I tried again to get that frequency back H just seemed really switched off and I couldn't get past that barrier.
