Long time no talk to. I've not been here in months. But just reading this post blows me away. You're actually having sex??? Our MC told us to simply stop - that's been over 2 months and it's killing me.
Your H sounds like he tries a bit (shopping), and I'll never relate to his not wanting it - as a guy it just seems so unnatural. But maybe I'm not the norm.
Be very greatful he's doing the exercises and making efforts.
Mine's totally checked out emotionally 100% and is only around b/c she knows she'd have to split custody with our kids - I'd go bankrupt fighting to get every second I could with them and she knows it. Our addict son is no longer living with us - hence her world would be totally gone. No addict son, no 2nd best daughters - but on the bright side she'd be done with me.
Take care and I'm happy for you.
So be glad for what you - talking from a ditch in the road.
Do what you've always done, you'll get what you always got.
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