The actual intent behind the assignment is to find out if when we do ML more often, he finds he wants it more.....or at least does his body want it more, do the signals get louder for him?
The assignment is geared at him, but not specifically that HE has to be the one to initiate each and every time. It's to find out if his twinges of SD grow louder or not. I do truly feel if I waited for him to initate the next one.....I'd be left waiting. I can say without hesitation that the pressure I'm sure he's feeling from this assignment is most likely overwhelming to him....but perhaps I'm being too nice about the whole thing.
I understand what you are saying Honeypot...but for me expecting my H to initiate 3x in a row, especially in that short of a period of time, would be like you expecting your H to suddenly turn into that Macho Marine again and phyiscally haul your butt off the the bedroom and have his way. Sure I'd love that....but it's simply not happening yet, there's still too much baggage in the way.
