Quote: As it progressed...after the erasing my clit part, he lays back on his back and I know his body language, he wants some oral action, I delays a little, nudged a little for him to go in the other direction, hinted and almost begged
Stop hinting and hoping. Try to keep it light perhaps. A sort of chuckle and a "Not this time, honey, me first!"
How would he respond to something like that?
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....Nothing... so I go down a little, maybe he'll suggest a little 69 (I don't really like that, I prefer 61 or 16) but I was loosing hope. So I thought, OK, I'll show you mister...I proceeded to give him a toe curling BJ. Evan though he had a little trouble getting there and almost gave up. I didn't
One of the biggest misconceptions and misunderstandings come in when spouses think "okay, I'll do X so great THEN s/he will do Y for me."
If your spouse tends toward being selfish, you doing *more* for them only creates a bigger entitlement monster.
