Well she can get a work permit, BUT she has to show proof of insurance. Heh.
what do you *want* to do?
Oh, man, I want to drop her off the insurance like a hot rock! I guess I always get caught up in what I *should* do. That would be quite a 180 for me to do what I *want* to do.
The whole correlation with the timing of the trip is something I've thought about. You are right she'll point to the trip as the reason. In a way it is. It's pissed me off enough to actually consider completely dumping her financially.
Do you have credit cards that she can still charge on?
I got a new CC awhile back and closed our old one cuz she was still using it. Her name is on the new one but she doesn't know that. All her dishes, towels, shower curtain, etc. at her place were all charged. I moved the balance off of the old card to the new one b/c it has 0% interest. So I'm paying for all of her stuff. Many months ago W said she'd "help" with the CC's but I have yet to see a penny. I admit I haven't asked either. Too proud I guess. That's probably a wrong move on my part.
Even OgreDad is being there for them.
OgreDad is on vacation for awhile. He only shows up when I'm dealing/processing subtle psychological frustration all by myself. Currently the sitch is more in-your-face hardcore action. I can handle that better and since this involves D9 it forces me to shift into father/adult/man mode. You may have hit upon something I can use. Hmmmm, yeah, <stroking goatee stubble> I think I just learned something. Thanks.
