She can't drive anyway, right, since she lost her license? And I would imagine this is costing you a significant chunk of change. If you're truly ready to DB for you and not for her, then what do you *want* to do?
If you drop her she'll figure it's in response to her trip. You can tell her it's not that the trip made you angry, it's just that your feelings for her have been slowly dying and the trip accelerated that process.
Do you have credit cards that she can still charge on? Might want to report them lost and get a new number.
I'm sorry to hear about D9, dude. You're doing a great job being there for her and S6. Even OgreDad is being there for them. Good work.
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