Hey TG and Phaser, There is nothing more attractive to me than a badass who is NICE to me, shows a soft side. Personal weakness of mine. But, I've been in therapy for 2 years so what do I know?
Always do right. This will gratify some people, and astonish the rest. Mark Twain
On second though SF maybe we shouldn't hang out when you come to town, we might get into too much trouble together..don't get me near the bad boys...I will learn my lesson eventually. RIGHT??? Texas, plenty of bad boys here...that's all that is left and available...non-committment types. Is there such a thing as a happy medium?
OK, here's my vote. I want a knight in shining armor who is also a nice guy. He can ride a motorcycle, but no heroin. He can be a bad boy in the sense that he will kick anyone's a$$ for disrespecting me, but not bad in the sense that my heart isn't safe with him. Nice, with just a touch of naughty when the occasion calls for it.
There's a Tim McGraw song that says "I might be a real bad boy, but, baby, I'm a *real* good man"
Now is that too much to ask?
VJ
PS- and honestly, to most of us DBing gals, nice is at the top of the list. Most of us could use a bit of nice right about now!
[quote ] He can be a bad boy in the sense that he will kick anyone's a$$ for disrespecting me, but not bad in the sense that my heart isn't safe with him. Nice, with just a touch of naughty when the occasion calls forit.
Perfect description.
Always do right. This will gratify some people, and astonish the rest. Mark Twain
Ok (A)ThatGuy and "Phase3" are right. It IS the kiss of death and while you may want one when the chips are down, you drop them when things get boring - oh that's a rhetorical you by the way and no, I'm not bitter (buwahahah)
(B)VJ is right as usual too. Badass to everyone else and nice to her about sums it up.
ThatGuy - DUDE! She's sweatin' over ya man. Wants to know too if you are whooping it up or what. I swear she is the texbook definition of WAS. Next time you see her and she looks nice, pinch her in the ass!
(Note: The providers of this advice assume no responsibility for hospital bills that are the result of knees in the groin. Of course, when you're laughing your a$$ off about it the next day, it may STILL be worth it.)